The Quintessential Bad Boy: Why Girls Can’t Resist Him
The world has never been able to reverse this phenomenon. The female species commit all sorts of travesties including going on dumb-mode just to be…
Category: Relationships & Sexuality
Healing a Broken Heart
I seriously googled “how to heal a broken heart” and it came up with some interesting results. I went into one of those forums where…
A New Year’s Resolution to Love
Oftentimes, you just need to make and commit to the decision that you deserve better. Here’s a letter I wrote, what seems like, a lifetime…
The Media: Culprit for Shoving Romantic Expectations into the Realm of Unobtainable?
Books, movies, the internet and more. We can’t deny the hype over damn good-looking vamps who’d make decent lovers if they weren’t so determined to bleed us out from…
Girl Code
Over the years, I have had the blessings of meeting many awesome and not so awesome female friends. Cliché quote: The older you get, the…
Ending Rape Culture in the Hmong Community
Back in 2008 when I was still mentoring youth, I came across a strange situation. I had a tough time getting my Hmong middle school…
Avoiding Bad Hmong Relationship Advice
Having been out of a long-term relationship and reflecting on it, I’ve been able to get some clarity on just what about being Hmong can…
A Hmong Man’s Contribution to the Domestic Violence Discussion
In light of a Sacramento Bee article that came out on the community movement against domestic violence in our community, I realize there needs to…